Post Potential

“What you have to say should help people get better and feel better. If you can't figure out how to do that, you're not ready to post. “ Carey Nieuwhof

This Social Media thing is astonishing. I cannot imagine all it is doing inside of us daily. I feel for the next generation and am so hopeful that we all can figure this thing out before all the damage is done.

When Facebook came out in 2010, I saw this enormous potential for so many great things. We can get in touch with a high school friend who now lives in a different state, we can share family photos, we can inspire people with encouragement or we could make people laugh. What we all didn’t imagine when it came out was how often we’d state our opinions, debate others, unfollow, unfriend and start to dislike some that we’ll never actually see. I often run into someone I haven’t seen in a while and already have an opinion about them due to their Social Media pages. I don’t think that’s fair but I do.

I have said over and over again that our political rant, our religious comment and our many opinions have yet to sway anyone else’s. If anything, we lose influence. I know for me, my opinions have changed greatly throughout the years (I’m so glad we didn’t have Social Media when I was in my 20’s!).

So what can we do? How can we make this social media a more positive experience? For starters, we can stop pretending we’re not on Social Media. Too many of us act as though we’re in a confessional booth when we admit to going on Facebook. It’s ok to check in on everybody. For me working in ministry, I love to have a bit of access into those who I am friends with. Because of my lack of watching the news, I sometimes actually get it from these outlets.

Secondly, we can have a Social Media accountability partner that can ‘ok’ your post before you post. Ok, that may be a bit much but I may be on to something. Maybe a new Social Media app that needs 2 different passwords from 2 different people to actively post anything? Run with it if you’d like.

Lastly, we’ve heard it before…the pause before the post. Really think about who this affects and how it affects them. Are we losing friends because of posts? Are we posting things we’d never say in person? Are we even using spellcheck!?!?

I hope all of you who read this see Social Media in the way I’d like to……..opportunities to reconnect, ways to encourage and a stop to laugh. Please LIKE this post………



Rich Pancoast
The Goodness of God


GUEST BLOGGER: Amy Swanson

Sunday morning, we sang a song declaring this truth, and it was powerful. Did anyone else feel it?

The song is called “King Of My Heart”, and part of it goes like this:

You are good, good, oh-ohh

You are good, good, oh-ohh

You’re never gonna let

Never gonna let me down

It’s a great song, glorifying the goodness of God. 

I really hope you caught it, the magnitude of power, truth, and love that came off the stage during worship. Beyond that, I noticed something wonderful, and I just HAD to share it with you!

For those that don’t know me, my name is Amy. FC has been my home church, as an adult, for the last 11 years. Though, I first attended as a young teen over 24 years ago! I am in awe of what the Lord is doing here, and caught a special glimpse of it during that worship set; a side we don’t always get to see, but one I feel is important to recognize.

As many of you know, our church family recently suffered some huge losses. One particular family lost their 18 year old daughter (a beloved friend of many, here at FC) and another family lost their home and pets in a devastating fire. 

Two things, very few of us can relate to! 

What has inspired this writing is the living testimony of these families, in the face of tragedy. The faith and strength of the women in particular, during this time, has touched my heart in a big way! 

It’s hard to imagine experiencing such loss and still showing up on Sunday with hands raised in praise and worship over the goodness of God. But that’s exactly what I’ve seen over the last couple weeks from these two ladies.  

I’m proud to call them friend and sister, as I know many of you are as well. They haven’t let the broken world we live in, or their trying circumstances, sway their opinions of the goodness of God. And neither should we.

Personally speaking, in the past, it’s taken less in my life to question that goodness. I bet, many of us, at one point or another, have even had the thought, “If God is so good, why do bad things happen to such good people?”

Questions like that, though valid in reasoning, misrepresent just how good, our good, good father actually is.

I’d like to address that train of thought real quickly, just in case you’ve also found yourself questioning God’s goodness at such a time. 

It seems to be pretty easy to trust God and to acknowledge His love and goodness when all is right in the world. Not so easy when something undeserving and outlandish takes place. 

Here’s the thing, early on in the book of Genesis, and again in Psalms 8:6 and Psalms 115:16, we clearly see that the earth and everything on it, was given unto the authority of man. 

Psalms 8:6You have given him (man) dominion over the works of your hands;you have put all things under his feet,

Psalms 115:16 The heavens are the Lord's heavens, but the earth he has given to the children of man.

So, my short and sweet answer to the “why” question falls on the corrupted state of man, and has nothing to do with the goodness of God. 

With that being said, I just had to bring to attention what understanding the goodness of God actually looks like. 

In the presence of pain and uncertainty, these particular ladies get it. They understand that not only is God so good in the good times, but His goodness transcends the tough and downright gut wrenching times as well. 

When you walk through the fire, with this revelation in your soul, it’s impossible to deny the grace and mercy of our Heavenly Father, always at work for the good of is children (Romans 8:28).   

Spend a couple minutes talking to these women (and many others like them) to see for yourselves just how true this is!

I’d like to share a particular scripture that came to mind as I was thinking about all this.

2 Corinthians 4:8-9 8 We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair;9 persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed;

Here’s the thing, we’re never promised an easy, trouble free life. Even the best of the best will face afflictions, perplexing situations, and persecution. It’s part of the package this side of Heaven. 

But take note, though we face trials and tribulations of all kinds, due to the nature of the world we live in, we can stand tall on this specific encouraging word. 

As Christians, yes, we may be afflicted, but we won’t be crushed!

Yes, we may be perplexed, but we won’t be driven to despair!

Yes, we may be persecuted, but we won’t be forsaken!

Yes, we may even be struck down but we won’t be destroyed!

Yes, we live in a fallen and broken world, one where sickness, death and destruction run rampant. All due to the will of man, not the will of God, because 2 Peter 3:9 tells us, the will of God is that none shall perish! 

It’s the whole reason God came to walk in our shoes as man; to redeem us out of the kingdom of darkness that sin brought and to transfer us back to heavenly places (Colossians 1:13).  

I can tell you, from listening to the stories of these 2 families that we serve a good God. 

They easily could have lost hope and started blaming instead of trusting. Instead, they stood upon the faith that had been built in their lives. As a result, God has shown up, in a big, big way, to carry them through the fire and to love them through it all.

That’s what we, as a church, want for you too. 

It’s why we so often encourage you to step up and serve, and to plug into the small groups and events. Doing so is a great way to build your faith and to witness the goodness of God, firsthand. 

We’re all in this together, and I promise you, when you look for the good, surely you will find it! It’s for this reason, we stand, with arms wide open, acknowledging the love and goodness of God, even on the darkest of days. Because He who is in me, is greater than he who is in t

Guest Blogger

Amy Swanson

Fellowship Church
Church Brag

Is bragging on your church a lack of humility?

I am so proud of my church family. I do not, for one second, take it for granted that we have a church full of pretty spectacular people. We, as a staff, feel extremely blessed.

In the last several weeks we have had quite a bit of heartbreak and trials. We had a family lose their daughter, a family lose their home to a fire, a few families going through a horrendous season of unanswered questions and anxious thoughts, and plenty of spiritual attacks. But let me tell you about their response. I have never been more inspired by a bunch of people than I have in this season.

Losing a daughter is unimaginable but the perspective of a God-fearing, Christ-loving family changes everything. In our conversations, I have seen their clarity of God at work. They have seen some of it but know they haven’t seen most of it. Their daughter has impacted more people in her short time here on earth than many of us ever will. They see that. They see the evidence and it is inspiring so many others.

Losing a home overnight to a house fire is a nightmare come true. It was upon reaching out to this special family that we saw God doing things that only He can. One day I believe they will share all of it. In fact, I believe some of it will come out during the leadership at our Women’s event called Born to Lead coming up next week! I certainly don’t want to give the story any injustice so I will let her share.

Being a believer with anxiety and stress doesn’t seem possible. It’s almost an oxymoron. Anxious Christian!?!?I thought if we truly believed and lived out our faith, we wouldn’t have anything to worry about. I wish. We are humans. Our lives (especially today) are chaotic. Everything is grabbing at us. The world is trying to convince us of what’s important and we (I know me) fall for it every time. We cannot control our mind all the time. There are studies that show things going on in our brain that we cannot control. I know that on a dime, everything can change. I’ve seen it in my life where out of nowhere, I feel anxious and overwhelmed. I do not attest this to a lack of faith. But what I see here is people pushing through, being here on Sundays, reaching out to other believers, surrounding themselves with people who love and care for them, avoiding isolation…..all of this, not easy.

I thank God today for all of these people around me that have inspired me more than they’ll ever know. I thank these people for living for Him even when it feels as though He’s not paying attention. I thank these people for their clear faith knowing that in the end, it’ll all make sense. Lives are being changed. People are accepting Jesus into their heart. People are fighting battles and not giving in. Leaning in instead of fleeing. Living out their faith daily and showing others who Jesus is by their actions.

I’m inspired and forever grateful that God has sent these special people into my life. I forever different because of them.

Rich Pancoast
Easter Prayer Experience: Day 6

Endgame

-Pastor Andy Eiss


Next week the long-awaited superhero movie, “Avengers Endgame” will be out in theaters.  Those who are fans are counting down the days — their long wait is over!


There is something about anticipating big events…

I think God has created each of us with a sense of excitement toward big events.  We love countdowns and long-awaited reveals. In just a matter of a few months, we’ll be wrapping up our full campus expansion and renovation - the NEXT Project. We’ve been at this a long while.  This project actually began three years ago behind the scenes with a lot of prayer, faith and love. 


Many of you have been involved in praying faithfully and giving generously. I want to thank you and let you know that it is all worth it! I believe our best days are still ahead of us. That from this spiritual journey we’ve taken together, we’ll launch into a new day. I’m asking you to pray with me that Easter will be the beginning of a year filled with miracles and changed lives.   


We’re doing all this because we want to attract and engage unchurched people…

  1. We recognize that the gravitational pull for churches tends to be toward insiders. We are committed to focusing on people we are trying to reach (outsiders).  We believe church should be the safest place on earth for people to ask questions and talk about anything.

  2. We think Jesus was irresistible and, therefore, his Church should be as well. So, we are committed to creating irresistible environments that serve as steps to community.

  3. Each week, we strive to create relevant weekend services that make people want to come back and take next steps. To us, relevance is an engaging presentation with helpful content given in an appealing context.

  4. We believe life change happens best in the context of intentional relationships, and small groups provide a healthy on­ramp for intentional relationships to form. That’s why we believe circles are better than rows. 

  5. We want this generation of young people to be the next generation of church leaders, so we continue to invest heavily in them.

  6. We believe that the church, as the body of Christ, carries the message of hope to the world.

| Will you join me in praying for our future?!  |

Fellowship Church
Easter Prayer Experience: Day 5

…and Breathe

-Benjamin Eiss


Easter, Christmas, and Last Blast. Those are three big events we have here at Fellowship and it seems like, for all of the years that I’ve been attending them (even at other churches) I don’t have even a few memories of them. This was happening even before I started working at Fellowship a few years ago, and I’m willing to bet that most of you are in a similar situation. I love the holidays…so why can’t I remember them?

If you don’t know me, then let me say “Hi! it’s nice to meet you. My name is Ben and I’m the media director here at Fellowship”. I’ve said that line so many times every holiday to new people that sometimes it just rolls off the tongue without me even knowing it. Part of my job is the technological aspect of our productions, as well as the graphics and (most) of the videos that go up and around our social media sites. I also work another job and like to keep a social life as well as time with the family. I’m busy…to say the least, but so is everyone else it seems.

 

If it’s alright, I’d like to take this moment to do a small exercise with you.

 

  1. Inhale with me through your mouth for five seconds.

  2. Exhale through your nose for five seconds.

  3. Read this next poem written by David, and take a moment to meditate on it.

for he knows how we are formed,
he remembers that we are dust.
The life of mortals is like grass,     
they flourish like a flower of the field;
the wind blows over it and it is gone,     
and its place remembers it no more
— Psalm 103: 14-16
 

Pretty Positive Right?

Don’t worry, I’m not trying to bring you down from the fun this Easter. Quite the contrary, I pray that you take the time to notice it. The stressors and responsibilities in our lives, while important, will not end the world. I want you to pay special, specific attention to the word “Flourish” that was used in this translation. Human life, my life, your life, is built to be beautiful. I want to drive home the idea, immediately, that before you are a mom, or a dad, or a student, or a sports fan, or a self-proclaimed disappointment or hot mess, you are first and foremost ____________. [fill in your name here]


 That breathing exercise…

…you just did is specifically built to deactivate our fight-or-flight instinct that we can find ourselves in. Some of us live in this nature. I know I did. Especially around Easter.

  • Easter

  • Christmas

  • Thanksgiving

  • My birthday

  • Family vacations

…always very tense for me.

It wasn’t until I really started to look at myself years ago and wonder why I was so stressed to begin with, that I began to understand that it all had to do with the sinking feeling that I was losing track of time. That these parts of my life that were supposed to be fun and enjoyable but often left me feeling like they were gone in a flash and I didn’t get to even enjoy them.


Holidays and special occasions have a knack for pushing us mentally, emotionally, and sometimes physically to the extreme. And then, somehow, after all that work, when we try to remember the events it’s as if they had been Men in Black style MIND WIPED from us. If Christmas is such a special day to me, why is it that I hardly remember it?!? To answer this, I’d like you to hit the play button below. I have recently gotten into a great podcast about time management and, very recently, one of the main subjects was “Why Time Fly’s?”. Go ahead and hit that button, it’s about 4 minutes long I promise. I’ll wait.

 

Like Laura said, our memories and our perception of time are inherently linked. It was because of this Idea that I realized that if I wanted to enjoy Easter more, if I wanted to Remember Easter more, I would have to take a few moments every now and again to breathe. God wants us to do this, he wants us to enjoy spending time with family and going all out on fun Easter traditions.

God has made beauty in this world, and the cruel nature of sin constantly seeks to pervert it.

Dramatic, I know, but it seems to happen over and over again. Everything in this world, every source of stress, every source of love, every moment of joy, every moment of apathy, every hug, and every slap, is fleeting, but what we imprint on our hearts and on our souls lasts for much longer. It is because of this rationale that I strive to remember the things that are beautiful, meaningful, and important to me. It is because of the memories I have to make that I slow down and breathe.


I would challenge you to do the same…

He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
— Ecclesiastes 3:11

…At least for this weekend. When you find something worth truly remembering, take 10 seconds (a breath in and a breath out) and remember it. It will make the fun last longer I promise. And the fun is meant for you. God planned for the fun and the incredible and the lovely moments in our lives from the inception of the universe specifically for those moments of time. In Ecclesiastes, Paul writes that,



 


Next, I’d like you guys to play this song that I have below. And to pray the lines under it with me. And to pray them slowly, and meaningfully. God wants to have conversations with us, so be silent after each sentence and give yourself the opportunity to reflect.

God, thank you for making a

world with me in it…

Thank you for setting up the sun and the stars from the beginning of time with the specific intent of me seeing them.

God, thank you for making me complex and dynamic, and for giving me the capacity to notice and remember the things around me.

God, I pray that, during my time this weekend,

I make a conscious effort to enjoy what is in my life.

To notice what exactly you sent your son to us for.

God, I pray that while I know that I can’t let go of some of these responsibilities in my life, that I recognize, constantly, that I was designed as an individual with a self-contained incredible beauty that was fashioned and stitched together to be in the image of you and a gift for me.

Help me see it around me.

God help me notice the incredible plans you have for me and the incredible world you have shown me.

And God, more than anything in this moment, thank you for

letting me remember these things.

God, thank you for designing me beautifully.

Thank you for giving me that part of you God.

Thank you for Giving me you.

Thank you.

 

If the song is still playing, just let it play out.

just…let it play out…and breathe.

 

Thanks,

-B.E.


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Easter Prayer Experience: Day 4

Next-Gen

-Ross verhault


You’ve heard all about millennials…

I myself am one of them. But what about the generation coming right behind them? Gen Z, born between 1999 and 2015. Some of you reading this right now are parents or grandparents of a Gen Z teenager. As an adult in my mid 20’s, I’ve had this preconceived notion that my generation wasn’t much different from Gen Z. I tended to think “how much could change in an 8-12 year age gap.” But what I’m starting to realize as a Student Pastor is that what worked for me as a teenager, as far as fostering faith, will not necessarily work for today’s youth. I recently read a Barna study on the correlation between Gen Z and faith and found it very compelling. 


Gen Z’ers today are:

  • less religious

  • more success-oriented

  • more captivated by technology - specifically social media -

  • and more likely to embrace different views on sexual identity. 

Gen Z was born in a context where religion in general, and Christianity in particular, is no longer a major influence in American culture. In fact, according to the Barna study, teens 13 to 18 are twice as likely as adults to say they are atheist. In addition, Gen Z’ers seem to have a flexible moral compass that leads them to un-clear paths and prevents them from making decisions or judgements according to solid values and convictions. Throw the influence of social media into all of this and we have an interesting concoction. 

Technology can help us socialize with people far away but it can also drive us to be less social. Recent studies are exploring the relationship between social media and isolation, and how it can even lead to depression.

Teens face a tension to portray themselves as happy, beautiful and successful.

In other words, to pretend to be somebody else. This can be damaging for a teenager especially in a time where they are discovering their identity.


Speaking of identity…

…most Gen Z’ers in the Barna study indicated that their ultimate goal in life was “to be happy”, and they defined happiness as financial success. Personal achievement is central to Gen Z’s identity more than family, background, and religion. These findings are not surprising and they seem to reflect the materialistic and individualistic outlook of life that permeates American culture. Christianity is “counter-culture” because it's communal and not individualistic.

Satisfaction and joy is not found in pursuing happiness, possessions, and success, but in a relationship with Jesus and the God who created us.

 

The deeper questions for a Gen Z’er are:

  1. What is truth?

  2. What is right and wrong?

  3. Who am I and what is my purpose?

  4. How do I achieve satisfaction?

Today’s youth are struggling to answer these questions more than any other generation and are searching for answers in the wrong places. The beautiful thing about the gospel is that it resolves these struggles. Jesus made the claim that he is “the way, the truth, and the life” (John 14:6). Easter reminds us and reassures this claim with his resurrection.

“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
— John 14:6


If Jesus is who he says he is, there is always hope. He is truth. He is the source of what is good. He is the way. He is the source of morals. He is our satisfaction and joy. Our identity is found in him. Every Easter I am reminded of this reality and it motivates me to teach and lead teenagers into that reality by any means necessary. It also drives me to live out my faith more authentically and transparently.  

The truth is, in many instances, young people do not reject Christ, they reject a sociological and political interpretation of Christianity that they see in their parents and adults around them that doesn’t necessarily reflect biblical values. In other words, they reject hypocrisy and value realness. A post-Christian culture forces you and I to be completely committed followers of Christ. Not just a “Christian” on paper, but a genuine follower where there is clear evidence displayed of the hope we have in Jesus.

But in your hearts revere Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect
— 1 Peter 3:15


The resurrection of Jesus changes everything. What convicts me is that if I really believe in that, it should change everything about me. What I find intriguing is that most of the disciples of Jesus were believed to be under the age of 18 when they began to follow him. The resurrection changed everything for and about them and they ended up changing the world. I believe any teenager of today who is fully devoted to Christ can do the same.  Teenagers are longing for purpose and to make a difference.

They long to make a change.

Jesus can empower them to do just that.



Would you pray with me today for the Gen Z’ers in our community and church.

Pray for parents and grandparents of faith who are raising teenagers. 

Pray for those who lead and volunteer in Fellowship’s youth ministries. 



If you want to pray specifically for today’s youth, check out this article “10 BIG Prayers I’m Praying Over Generation Z” .

Article Referenced in this Post: Link

Fellowship Church
Easter Prayer Experience: Day 3

Let the Children Come to Me

-Kayleigh Mierzejewski


While some have mainly been frequenting Fellowship’s newest building, several families are witnessing almost weekly surprises while checking in their children over at FC Kidz. That building is currently being renovated, and what a transformation it is that we get to witness! “Hey! A new door!”

“I wonder what’s behind the plastic curtain…”

“Whoa! They can just build a wall like that?!”

Children and adults alike are excited to see our kids’ areas take on a new shape…

which to me fits perfectly with the season we’re in.


Lent. Easter. Spring. These bring a sense of freshness, renewal, a time of growth. I love getting to see this happening right now in our church, particularly in FC Kidz. Over the past several weeks, we’ve seen record numbers of kids attending our Sunday services, peaking at 35 in Kidz Club! In one service! High fives to those awesome volunteers who served that Sunday! It is amazing to see God at work as He grows our church community! Even while we are still in progress to make our building’s appearance look its best, God continues to use our imperfect, in-progress circumstances for His perfect plan.

I love a metaphor with layers, don’t you?



See, on the surface, this freshness, renewal, and growth can be seen tangibly in the added steel beams, plaster, and altered layout of our kids’ rooms. To see God using FC Kidz volunteers, environments, and experiences to make a difference in the future of our church is even more incredible. Every week, there are dozens of volunteers dedicating their time and energy to compassionately serving the children of our church on Sundays.

From snuggling infants to teaching school children.

From story-time with preschoolers to playtime with toddlers.



Our volunteers create a place where children receive Jesus’ love, learn about His incredible promises, and are supported to make lasting connections within our church. Our FC Kidz volunteers have an opportunity every Sunday to open growing minds and hearts to Christ, and it brings me such joy to think of how this pleases Him.


Jesus said, ‘Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.
— Matthew 9:14 NIV

As children get to know Christ on their level, life change is happening!

They get excited about coming to church each week! They learn about what a relationship with Christ means and say “Yes!” to Him! They choose to be baptized! They earnestly invite their friends to church, Living Proof, and Vacation Bible Camp, sharing and spreading the Good News! When they’re teens, many serve in our kids’ environments so that they can be difference makers for the next generation! They’re already on mission with moving up and to the right, not only personally but as an active participant in Fellowship Church’s story.

| In my role as Nursery Coordinator… |

I have the awesome opportunity to see how volunteers’ lives are changed through their selfless service. Their own pursuit of Christ deepens as they encourage children to pursue Him. Their own Biblical knowledge expands as they teach the Bible to kids on their level. They network and form friendships with other FC’ers who they may not have met otherwise. They take time off from work to volunteer at VBC because they so value the relationships and spiritual growth that they get to be a part of through serving opportunities.


  • Every person matters to Christ, no matter how small.

  • Every role is important to Christ, whether it’s changing a diaper or leading a Bible skit.

  • Every Sunday in FC Kidz matters not only to the future and longevity of our church…

…but MORE importantly, to God’s kingdom.

I feel incredibly blessed as an FC Kidz volunteer to get to be a part of this.


Please join me in praying for FC Kidz this week. I want to invite you to pray with me on three levels:

  • Pray for the children attending FC. Father God, thank you for bringing so many children through Fellowship’s doors - it is so exciting to see your church continue to grow! We pray that as they experience Jesus on their level, they leave church on Sunday feeling loved, encouraged, and inspired to make a difference in the world in Your name.

  • Pray for the FC Kidz volunteers. Lord, thank you for the compassionate hearts and caring hands that You provide in the FC Kidz environments! They are continuing the growth and strengthening the future of Your church. They see value in each person that You bring through Fellowship’s doors. They are difference makers illuminating a relationship with Jesus for children of all ages to learn about and engage in. We pray that our volunteers know how much they matter and the amazing, lasting impact they have on the future of Your church.

  • Pray for next steps. God, we ask that you open our hearts and make it clear as to how You want to use us for Your purposes. As we read in 1 Corinthians 3:9, “For we are both God’s workers. And you are God’s field. You are God’s building.” (NLT) Your good works are alive in us, Lord; show us how to use Your gifts for Your kingdom. Give us boldness to step out and serve in Your church. Give us encouragement to invite families to join the amazing work You are doing here at Fellowship. Thank you for making us a part of Fellowship Church during this season of growth and renewal so that we get to be difference makers. In Jesus’ precious name I pray, Amen.

Fellowship Church
Easter Prayer Experience: Day 2

As I thought of the many ways I’d like those who attend Fellowship Church to pray, I thought of so many areas where we may not be praying enough.

For those of you who attend here frequently, you know that our biggest prayer here is for people to first accept Jesus Christ into their heart, then secondly, move closer and closer to Him (up and to the right). As part of this prayer, we hope everyone who has been attending for a long time and already knows Jesus to be welcoming and patient.


"The welcoming”…

…comes with getting to know newer people and making them feel at home. It’s so easy to stay within our clique. Sometimes it’s the only day of the week we see some of our friends so we get it. But picture this:

You go into a church for the first time and everyone you see is already in conversations. They’re in their circle and not coming out. You go all the way through the Atrium, Coffee Bar and into the Auditorium with not even a greeting. Maybe you enjoy the message but you’re not sure you want to return to the stuffy atmosphere.


 Jesus is all about others.

We should be as well.

It doesn’t come easy.

We need to work at it.

 


The patience comes with understanding the tensions that come with more people coming here each week to FC. Yes, it may get crowded and tougher to get a seat at times but what’s the other option? “I’m glad you asked”. The other option is we stay comfortable with the handful of people around us, keep attendance low so we can get our regular seat, request our favorite worship songs, get old together as a church and die together as a church.

A bit harsh there but…

 

Listen older people, we want younger people attending here.

Listen younger people, we want older people attending here.

We want all ages, all types, the good, even the bad and the ugly (Don’t call them that). We want those who are at rock bottom, those that society won’t accept, those who feel as though lightning will strike if they enter this building because this is how Jesus rolled.

Jesus took those at their worst and brought them to places they never thought they’d go.
  • We believe Jesus can:

  • change any behavior

  • turn anyone He wants away from sin

  • break cycles in families

  • stop addiction

  • restore marriages

  • mend relationships

  • heal those hurting and renew anyone’s life.

We know because we’ve seen it over and over. We want all walks of life, no matter the gender, race, current belief, or social status. Jesus welcomed everyone, so will we. Our prayer is that everyone will always feel welcome here.

I believe another prayer we need to do daily is for the movement of everyone here at FC. We do not want anyone to be the same next year or even next month. We want everyone moving, as we say here, up and to the right. I always loved the quote:

“It’s ok to not be ok but it’s not ok to stay that way.”

This is why we do FC Groups. We believe it’s so important to be around others as they grow as well. We believe in the whole ‘circles not just rows’. On Sundays, we sit in rows and listen to a message. During the week, we sit in circles (in groups) and discuss what we’re learning. Building relationships with like-minded people is so important. It’s in these relationships where we can be inspired, motivated and encouraged. We also learn more about our faith and have opportunities to ask questions, have people pray for us and slow down the business of life for one hour a week. I met some of my closest friends in an FC Group.

 

I’m so thankful for this church and the many people here that ‘get it’. I love all of you who serve here. I love all of you who go out of your way to welcome others. I love the many of you who give each week knowing you’re making a difference. I love those of you who just started coming out and your intentionality to come each week. I love those of you who took a chance and tried us out. I’m praying you come back. Lastly I’m praying for those of you reading this that do not already belong to a local church to come check us out.

 

Would you please take some time today to pray with us?

Fellowship Church